There was no argument at all or any of reason that I could think of to cause him this upset.
I am no longer angry at her, I think she just a very sad person.
Dating a man who is going through a divorce is not a easy thing to do. Most of time just dealing with all kinds of issues.
He said that he is tired of dealing with me and I am not the right person for him. We all do the best we can with the information we have at the time.
He also said that we both should date other people.. We just saw each other 3 days before the break up and we planed on the Black Friday shopping. Clearly, he needs to put himself together to get over the divorce then there will be the time for him to heal. He does need to get his life together and he needs to do a lot of it by himself before the dust settles in his life. Writing a message would be a bad idea after he has told u how he felt.
I would bet that the emotional and psychological baggage of her marriage is causing your girlfriend to be distant. Probably not much, other than suggesting that the marriage is having an affect on you guys.
Here are some suggestions of what you can do: It sounds like she's not ready to have the relationship you want right now. This doesn't have to mean that you can never have a relationship together, but maybe just not right now.
Things got improved a lot this time because we both understand what's more important in our relationship, which is open communication and give each other space to work on the issues. I only know that we love each other and we want to be with each other. His wife is no where near to settle for the divorce, she would like to drag this as long as she can.
She already moved in with her boyfriend to the new house they bought together but still asking for ,800 a month from my boyfriend.
I care about him but at the same time want to give him enough space to sort through his life. I also plan to mail him a short note after the New Year to tell him that I respect his decision and would like to help him as a friend if he needed. The divorce is probably stressing him out beyond his normal endurance. You really have no choice but to respect his decision, and it's better to show him that by NOT writing instead of sending him a message saying in effect "Hey! He asked me to think about it before I accept him back to my life.