I think younger women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with older women. They are not just looking for guys who will be good fathers and providers. I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that area.""When I meet a woman over 30, she's usually very clear and focused.She knows what she wants in life and it makes being with her so much easier.RELATED: Love lessons: Understanding personality types for a happier relationship Fred's first older-woman experience occurred when he was 21 years old and Gretchen was 37. They are both still very close and see each other regularly.
Pat offered me space, devotion and herself, which I couldn't find in anyone else. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem.
I now have a better job and feel better about myself than ever before."—Neil, 35"I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I enjoy sitting down to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation I can appreciate and enjoy. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive.
Also, there were levels of honesty unlike anything I've experienced even with best friends." Fred gave us a wealth of information over several interviews.
Open, upbeat and extremely handsome, he revealed the enormous love and respect he shared with his former partner and now shares with his current partner.
I wasn't looking for an older woman and Karolina wasn't looking for a younger man, but it just happened.
(I was 39 and she was 55 then.) Our relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love.
I mean, older women think differently on certain issues and they've got more experience. Not that I was doing it for her, but just being with her."—Art, 27 "Emotional stability. There have been nothing but positives in my relationships with two older women.
They were able to see things in me that I could not see in myself.
In fact, when I first met her, I didn't know I was attracted to an 'older' woman.