I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years, going on 7.
After working with hundreds of couples and researching the dynamics behind what leads to couples getting married for years and I’ve narrowed it down to 2 steps. If you want to be with him forever, enjoy your relationship like it’s going to last forever.
This effectively gives your man room to breathe and you get to have some space for yourself.
Just because you are married doesn’t guarantee a happy ever after. And most of all, marriage does not mean your man will never leave you. Like I said, marriage is nothing more than a label people place on their relationships to show their devotion towards one another. If you stop focusing on the idea of getting married as something that needs to happen and instead focus on the quality of the time you spend with your guy you will A good friend of mine, Clare, was frantic when she came to me.
She was dating a guy for 7 years and she felt like she tried everything… His logic was that marriage would ruin things and the nonstop pressure she put on him to do it started causing problems in their relationship.
That doesn’t mean he will immediately think the answer is marriage, but it will definitely bring him closer to popping the question. Trying to will only push him further away from the idea of proposing.
Are you in a relationship right now where your guy refuses to put a ring on your finger but you desperately want him to? Let me know in the comments, I love to hear from my readers.There's no rulebook or strategy when it comes to dating someone and knowing the right time to finally pop the question and seal the deal with them.You could date for three months before getting a burn in your stomach that lets you know to hold onto this person because they are the best you're ever going to get.Take all the energy and effort you’ve been putting into trying to make him propose and invest it into your own life.Spend time with your friends, your hobbies, and your family.When you’re happy about your own life, this creates a powerful vibe that entrances your man and makes him love being around you. If you want him to stick with you forever, show him that you can mix things up.