If anything, you’ve sent her backpedaling to placing you in the “option” category before she even knows you. We also know we probably won’t have to put in any more effort to keep you around because clearly you’re devoting all of your available energy into us and only us.
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I’ve dated nice guys, I’ve been friends with nice guys, and I’ve objectively observed nice guys from the sideline while they sent "good morning" texts and bought flowers. It has to be a blow to the ego when you really like someone, but every action you make in an attempt to have that feeling reciprocated pushes her away. I’m going to betray all women for a second (many of whom love to pretend women think nice guys are just as sexy and desirable as bad boys -- ROFL, we do not) and try to get our perspective to make sense. ”The next day, she’s mailed baby clothes to your apartment with your last name embroidered on tiny matching hats.
It’s usually unfair to group men of any kind into a stereotype, but we can make that rule permissible for the sweethearts who experience an identical outcome to their time-consuming (and expensive, holy hell) courting and wooing -- they never get the girl. Their text messages are left unread, their DMs are unopened, and the girl they just bought an expensive dinner for has seemingly passed onto the Great Beyond and ghosted them. It’s like “OK, I just did everything in my power to make her feel special and beautiful, and in return she sh*t on my whole life.”Resenting women in general would seem like the next logical step in thinking, with abundant evidence supporting the hypothesis that women love assh*les more than nice guys. After all, men and women have the same end goal -- we just prefer different deliveries. The next day, she texts you thanking you for such a great time, asks how your day is going, maybe sends over a thoughtful article on topic with the intelligent discussion you had over dessert. She texts you thanking you for such a great night, and when you don’t answer after five minutes, she asks if you’re cheating on her.
I know this clingy psycho behavior is not what you’re doing specifically, but I have to exaggerate so that you get it.
It doesn’t matter what kind of attention you’re giving us -- if it’s too much, you seem like a serial killer.
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”No, she thinks, “He’s obsessed with me, and I can do whatever I want.”She is not going to respect or value you.
Just like the girl sending monogrammed baby clothes, you have erased any sense of urgency from the potential relationship with your early investment.
Whether the combination of the two equals infatuation depends on you, but the simplest fact is that you are still technically strangers in the “Getting To Know Each Other” phase of dating.