[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.
Almost all the time, you’ll just end up assuming that your boyfriend’s only trying to help you.
If you’re stuck in a relationship with an insecure man, you’ll have to spend all your life trying to please him and make him feel happy and satisfied in the relationship.
A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
If a guy’s scared you’ll leave him, he’d do anything to manipulate you into staying.
Insecure men like controlling their women because of their own shortcoming.
Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.
And even if you want to meet a good friend, you’d wonder if your boyfriend or husband would be okay with you meeting a friend. Chances are, you’re being tricked into submission by an insecure man.