My advice as a dating coach is to do your best to avoid getting emotionally attached early on and instead, just keep your heart open.When I met my husband (number 30), I was dating Geoff (number 29). So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one guy at a time is a wise idea.
I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.
They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.
I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?
The other scenario is that these women fall in love too fast with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...
When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.
) If you are just getting out there or have been dating one man at a time, let me encourage you to try volume dating.
It takes the pressure off and makes dating so much more fun and exciting.
I went out on a blind date with him and then proceeded to date both men for about five weeks until I could see how things would shake out with each of them.
This saved me because even though I liked Geoff a lot, Paul was a much better match for me. Related: 5 Things Strong Women Do That Attract QUALITY Men (And Keep Them Interested!
He was a really nice guy, and I was totally enjoying getting to know him.