The number on the card represents the number of seconds each sexy act should last. Why: This exciting game of foreplay will make you move at a teasingly slow pace that will leave both of you ready for more.Variation: Make the moves even more intense by doing them for minutes, not seconds.
Variation: If you don't have bedposts, you may be able to tie your wrists to some part of your headboard or tie them together over your head or behind your back.
You can get extra-long ties and be tied to the legs of the bed.
You told your adolescent son to go to hell.) Then kneel on the bed.
Your man spanks you using his hand or a hairbrush or a not-too-scary disciplinary accessory. A smart smack on the butt creates a tingly, alert sensation that combines well with the other feelings of sex.
"Time Bomb" refocuses you on the pre-game show, the part that used to be so much fun before you lived together. Why: Not being able to see during sex has two major effects—it dramatically increases both sensitivity and psychological vulnerability.
You'll be surprised by how much slowing down changes things. Then proceed to ravish him — slowly, recklessly, teasingly — however you feel like doing it. Either one is a powerful aphrodisiac (maybe you've heard of You need: Four neckties, or more elaborate restraints available at sex-toy stores or online; a bed, preferably one with bedposts.RELATED: Sex Therapists Share Their Best Sex Tips So You Can Have Better Sex — Every Time How to play: Try engaging in an intense tickle war or a naked pillow fight.The one to surrender first has to perform a sexual favor for the winner.You get really creative and You need: A scarf, necktie, or a blindfold. How to play: He ties your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and has his way with you.Why: It can be incredibly erotic to be completely powerless, to be the absolute center of his attention and to have no responsibility for or sway over what happens.Around the World in Bed comes with a dart board and male and female cutout figures to stick on the wall.